A smile of the day

As a daily routinue i was going to work on my two wheeler. On my way there was a traffic signal on intersection of four roads. I had to wait for signal to turn green. Meanwhile on left side of signal  i saw Maruti Zen in which a man was seated on driving seat , due to sunlight i could just see his clothing , his dressing sense looked like he must be an officer of higher designation. I couldn’t clearly see his face. My mind got sticked to this man and i became  eager to see his face ,i wanted to see his facial expressions and his looks.

For signal to turn green 12 seconds were remaining. I closed my eyes and  wished “God i want to have a glimpse of this man.”   As soon as i open my eyes i saw the man  opening the car window and he looked at me. He looked cool, a man in his twenties. He smiled. Yes !!! he actually gave a smile. The Smile made my day.

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Don’t know how but really that stranger whom i shall never meet again left me wid a memorable smile to cherish.

“A Smile is the prettiest thing you can ever wear”

While walking on streets or passing by we can share our Smile, who knows that little Smile can make a difference to others.

~Fatema Vanak

If you ever fall in Love

If you ever fall in LOVE…

# Fall in Love with someone who wants to know your favorite color and just how you like your coffee.
# Fall in Love with someone who loves the way you laugh and would do absolutely anything to hear it.
# Fall in Love with someone who puts their head on your chest just to hear your heart beat.
# Fall in Love with someone who kisses you in public and is proud to show you off to anyone they know.
# Fall in Love with someone who would never ever want to hurt you.
# Fall in Love with someone who makes you question why you were afraid to fall in love for first place.
# Fall in Love with someone who falls in LOVE with your faults and thinks you are perfect just they way you are.
# Fall in Love with someone who thinks that you are the ONE they would love to wake up to each day.

~Fatema Vanak

When it doesn’t feel right,go left

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Don’t follow the crowd make your own identity and make others follow you.Try your luck to move out of boundaries  and achieve heights at its best.

~Fatema Vanak

” How to let go my past?? “

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” i cannot go to her,nor i can forget her, i will live with her memories, i don’t want any relationship ,i will die loving her .”  said one of my close friend about her past relationship after unexpected  breakup.

He cannot forget the girl,nor can forgive her, he tried to convince but all in vein ,he is stuck between her and his own family, he cannot accept that she doesn’t want to move forward into their relationship.He is sticked to past and doesn’t move on.

The negative NO is fit into his mind and he has shut the doors of all happiness coming to him. He is living dead man i saw and feel pitty towards him. How can anyone not forgive someone??

One should forgive others and their mistakes ,not for them but for oneself. If we don’t  forgive them than it might not affect them but deep inside, we suffer. To let go the past Forgiveness is important.

You will feel free after forgiving people from past that hurt you. If you don’t do so, you will be left alone to suffer and have pain.

~Fatema Vanak

Yes i have my identity

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Yes, i’m a introvert. No ,I’m not shy. No, I’m not stuck up. No,I’m not antisocial. I’m just listening. I’m just observing.
I can’t stand small talk….But I’ll talk about life for hours. I’d rather be home with a close friend or 2 than among a big crowd of acquaintances.
Don’t scold me in public..
Don’t embarass me in public.
Respect that I’m  reserved.And if i open myself to you, know that means you’re  very special to me.

~Fatema Vanak

Past and Present

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That day,Day before yesterday, Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow …life will move on and on. We come accross many people, stories ,facts, cultures , incidents etc (never ending list).

Past cannot be changed,forgotten,edited,or erased. It can also only accepted.
So Today  accept your past, not everyone can do it. You need to be brave enough to accept and live with it.

Important is to live in present with all your past and sorrow. Past will remain with you in form of memories. A tour of emotions that you have lived will still continue with us for rest of life. But to stick with it is Ok?? We should learn from it and Move on with it.

Today is the day to enjoy,smile,spread happinesss, explore, Love and be loved.

~Fatema Vanak

Unpack your baggage

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Everyone comes with baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help  you unpack.

~Fatema Vanak

Just because…

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Just because you’re unhappy doesn’t mean you can’t laugh at funny things  and  marvel at beautiful things and enjoy happy moments. You can still do happy things even if you are unhappy.

Setting your mind in an unhappy state and isolating yourself from other things  is not worth. Its like setting yourself into fire,just to check its warmth.
# So be happy even if you are facing some problems in life.
# Try to accept what you are going through (as your fate and destiny ).
# Learn pampering yourself at hard times.
# Move on with present ..let go the past ,don’t stick to it.
# Share your feelings,it will help to console heart and mind.
Your feedback and words of wisdom are welcomed.

~Fatema Vanak

Find a way to meet your loving one’s

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No matter how much busy you are, but if its important to you ( you have set it to higher priority) then you will absolutely find a way.We should actually find time and way to meet our friends and relatives,because being just self centered is not a cup of tea.
A father earning for family but having no time for his childrens !!!! Is it ok????
Many a times i have found kids of my college complaining about it. No interference of parents have made them feel dull. (No asking parents to control their childrens or impose their decisions but atleast some care should be shown.)
Take a leave from office to meet your old friend,join a party even you don’t want to, spend a holiday with family members, play with your kids ,motivate them ,visit your grandparents, fetch time to join  reunions of school friends, old colleagues.
Find a way to be connected…

~Fatema Vanak

Short Quotes

Some nice short quotes that i came across.

# Life is similar to Boxing Game. Defeat is not Declared when U Fall Down. It is Declared when U Refuse to Get Up.

# Always WRONG PERSONS Teach the RIGHT LESSONS in Life. That is called LIFE EXPERIENCE.

# Faith is taking the 1st Step, even when U dont see the whole Staircase

# Keep Ur Face to the Sun, & U will not see the Shadow.

#Everything is Valuable only at 2 Times: 1: Before Getting It. & 2: After Losing It.

# Two Things brings Happiness & Success in Life: 1: The way U Manage when U have Nothing. & 2: The way U Behave when U have Everything.

# Two Places are most Valuable in the World: 1: The NICEST Place is to be in Someone’s Thoughts. & 2: The SAFEST Place is to be in Someone’s Prayers.

# ‘FEAR’ has 2 Meanings: 1: Forget Everything & Run. & 2: Face Everything & Rejoice. Choice is Ours.

# ATTITUDE at its Best: “My BACK is not a VOICE MAIL. Kindly Say whatever U have by FACING ME”.

# What is SUCCESS ? SUCCESS is, when Ur Photo’s are Uploaded on ‘GOOGLE’ instead of FACEBOOK.

# ‘EGO’ is the only Requirement to Destroy any Relationship. Be a Bigger Person, Skip the ‘E’ & let it ‘GO’.

# Do U know why God did not give Us the Gift to Read Other’s Mind ? So that, We could have the Chances to ‘TRUST’ & Privilege to be ‘TRUSTED’.

# As long as We do not Forgive People who have Hurt Us, They Occupy a ‘RENT-FREE-SPACE’ in our Mind.

# Always keep Hoping for Good. Keep a Green Tree in Ur Heart. The Singing Birds will Automatically come.

# If U Walk the Way guided by Humans, U will find a Hopeless End. BUT If U will Walk the Way guided by GOD, U will find Endless Hopes & Opportunities.

# GOD always likes to know again & again what U want. It is not that He Forgets Ur Dreams & Prayers, But He Loves to Check Ur Passion towards Ur Desire. That is why He wants U to have Ur ‘QUIET

# TIME’ which We call as ‘PRAYER TIME’ with Him everyday.

# I asked GOD: If everything is already Written in Destiny, then why should I Pray ? GOD Smiled & said: I have also Written ‘CONDITIONS APPLY’.

# Empty Pockets Teach Millions of Things in Life. BUT Full Pockets Spoil Us in Million Ways.

# TRUST is like a Sticker. Once it is Removed, it may Stick again, but not as Strong as it Holds when U First Applied.

# Always take Care of RELATIONS. Thats why they say, when U are in Doubt, ‘SILENCE’ is the Best Policy.

# Never Win People with Arguments. rather Defeat Them with Ur Smile. Because People who always Wish to Argue with U, cannot Bear Ur SILENCE.

#If a Drop of Water falls on a Lake, its Identity is Lost. BUT If a Drop of Water falls on a Lotus Leaf, it Shines like a Pearl. Drop is the Same, but the ‘COMPANY’ matters

#Our HOPES should be like HAIR & NAILS. No matter how many times they get Cut, but they never stop Growing. That is why they say, Always Hope for the Best, however Bad the Situation may be.

#  ‘MEMORIES’ are always Special. Sometimes, We Laugh by Remembering the days We Cried. & Sometimes, We Cry by Remembering the days We Laughed. Thats LIFE. ~Fatema Vanak